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Grafton Lodge

A small, family-run care home in Strood

Grafton Lodge looks after up to 22 older people in a period house on Goddington Road, Rochester. We offer residential, dementia and respite care. Call us to talk things through, or come and look round.

A smiling resident in a chef's hat holding a whisk over a tray of cake mix
Baking day at Grafton Lodge
  • Up to 22 residents
  • 20 bedrooms: 18 single, 2 for couples
  • Residential, dementia and respite care
  • 40 Goddington Road, Strood

Why families choose us

Small enough to know everyone by name.

A care home for up to 22 people in Strood, just across the Medway from Rochester, where care is planned around each person: their routines, their history and what matters to them.
Carers and residents laughing together around a table
Carers and residents at Grafton Lodge

Small by design

Up to 22 residents, so our team gets to know everyone, and their families, well.

Run by a family

Grafton Lodge is owned by Murali and Darshini, a husband and wife who are both part-time GPs with experience in elderly care.

A room of their own

18 single rooms and 2 for couples, and a lift serves both floors.

Days with company

Baking, painting, crafts, music and celebrations, planned with residents.

About Grafton Lodge

Life at Grafton Lodge

The little moments make it home.

Days are shaped around the people who live here: baking, painting and crafts, music, birthdays, visits from family and time in the garden.
A carer sitting with a resident beside a bouquet of red roses and a cake

Birthdays and celebrations

Cake, flowers and company to mark the day.

Carers helping residents arrange flowers and leaves at the dining table

Arts and crafts

Flowers, cards and decorations, made together.

A resident painting a round lamp at a table

Painting

An unhurried afternoon with a brush and some colour.

A resident singing into a microphone with carers during a music afternoon

Music and singalongs

Karaoke with the staff, and singers at our parties.

Residents smiling over lunch at the dining table

Meals together

Home-cooked lunches at the dining table, with plenty of chat.

See life at Grafton

What families tell us

What families tell us

“A lovely care home. Staff are friendly and welcoming. The manager is very approachable. … I cannot recommend this home highly enough”

Julie C, daughter of a residentcarehome.co.uk, December 2025

“The staff at Grafton Lodge are absolutely marvellous in dealing with her, calming her down and getting her settled. … You are all stars.”

Paul U, husband of a residentcarehome.co.uk, February 2026

“With the love, professionalism, care and warmth given to me by all the staff, I left Grafton Lodge with a new lease for life.”

Wendy B, former respite residentGoogle

“It is run with care and love at its heart that is as inspiring as it is to be a part of.”

Malcolm M, son of a residentcarehome.co.uk, July 2025

“The staff treat residents with care and compassion and with dignity and respect, always. There is a real homely feel at Grafton and visitors are made to feel welcome at all times.”

Teresa R, sister of a residentcarehome.co.uk, January 2024

“Home-made food, clean rooms, hot baths with music and candles, activities, permanent carers that residents come to recognise and know and a social life within the home. … A gem in the middle of Strood.”

Claire H, great-niece of a residentcarehome.co.uk, May 2023

“Grafton Lodge is a very clean and homely place, where all staff are caring and friendly. The rooms are warm, cosy and welcoming and the food is tasty.”

Nicola H, niece of a residentcarehome.co.uk, February 2023

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Inspection

Our CQC rating

The Care Quality Commission (CQC) is the independent regulator of care in England. It inspects every care home and publishes what it finds. Our current rating is shown here, straight from the CQC, and you can read the full inspection report on its website.

Read our CQC report

Come and look round

The best way to choose a care home is to see it.

Give us a ring and we'll arrange a time for you to come and look round, or email us and we'll get back to you.

Grafton Lodge, a sage-green period house with white bay windows on Goddington Road
Grafton Lodge from Goddington Road
Call Grafton Lodge: 01634 722621